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Many of her patients had stopped moving for fear
of making things worse: fear-avoidant behaviour,
driven by fears both rational and irrational.
She asked them what they wanted their life to
look like, then listened to their story without
correcting it. Once people heard their own story
out loud, they could face those fears and choose
the next step. With support, they took it, and
kept going through the setbacks, towards the
outcome they had described.
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Later, she and her son Gabriel had one hour a
week on a FaceTime call. They chose to spend it
building a world called Coral Cove. Kate asked
one question, wrote down everything he said and
corrected nothing. That world became The
Adventures of Gabriel, now three books, and a
method since used with 465 children in nine UK
primary schools.
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In October 2024 Kate spoke about the book at a
networking event. Afterwards, mums, dads,
grandparents, teachers and a retired social
worker all asked her the same thing: how did you
do it? So she took the method into a classroom
in Bradford. One child tells the story and
another writes it down, so each does one thing
at a time. By the afternoon the children were
asking for more paper.